Caregiver burnout or fatigue is a state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion that may be accompanied by a change in attitude that consists of a shift from positive and caring to negative and unconcerned. On average family caregivers spend anywhere from 24.4-41 or more hours a week with their loved one. This time spent consists of assisting loved one’s with daily tasks such as feeding, eating, transferring, bathing and ensuring the adults needs are being met.
No one wants to leave the comfort of his or her own home or with those that they love. This can be a very difficult decision. However, these are important decisions that need to be made. Dealing with an aging loved one can be extremely difficult and often times overwhelming. Families who spend the majority of their time caring for their loved ones lose sight of the familial relationships. The role of the family is less about a family and more about the role of a caregiver. The quantity of time is increased but loses the quality aspects of the relationship. The role of the family has been reversed and often times the child is caring for their parent. This can be a difficult transition.
Placement of a loved one’s in a residential facility is important to maintain a healthy relationship. It is important to remind yourself that you are not giving up. You are still a part of that loved one’s life and the most important advocate they have. It is imperative to remember that you must take care of yourself in order to take care of others. Placement allows you for quality time with the loved one while also providing love and support to yourself. Placement is not a negative transition and can be beneficial to everyone involved.